He hates our dog
I knew it would be a bad idea. We adopted a dog about a month ago. She was a rescue. We knew she was a reactive dog. He thought it was no big deal. I was fine with it because I wanted to train her.
Now he hates her. He yells at her when she barks. She does bark excessively seemingly at nothing, but yelling at her doesn't help.
He hates her leash reactivity even though we knew about it from the start. He complains about her pulling, but refuses to stop walking when she does because he's too impatient and wants to go back home sooner.
She started peeing in the hallway in front of the bathroom, even after only a few hours after we've walked her. He gets overly mad about it and takes it out on her. It's a problem, but problems take time to solve and we're working on it.
Training is 100% on me. I was the one who crate-trained her and taught her some basic commands. It took a lot of hard work and patience. He did nothing.
We knew she would be a project dog, but he thinks she's a shitty dog and regrets adopting her. It didn't help that doing so revealed to me how shitty he can be towards animals.
She makes him miserable, but she makes me happy. He makes me miserable.
I gave him an ultimatum, get his temper in check or I walk. I can't stand people being shitty to animals. Shitty animals are dumb and don't know any better, but shitty people should.
He says he's going to work on his temper, but I doubt he will. I'm giving him a chance, but I don't believe this relationship will last.
I think I'm falling out of love.